The girl - part1

Most male comenting on girl driving and pointing fingers on her driving sense. No one raise his hand to overcome from the issue. For that one should find the roots of the issue, that can only help to imporve.

A girl in childhood or teenage is  pampered by family. Not to play out, not to go out, not to drive cycle. No physical activites no mental activities. On other hand a boy is roaming out, driving cycle on streets. Childhood is the training center of human life, what he learn in childhood that remains with humans over the life. 

Romaing out is developing confidence in boys. While boys driving cycle their body and mind balanced to drive in better way. The more practice you do, more better you perform. Most girls get their personal vehicle in certain conditions like no one available to drop, taxi fair is expensive etc. That has also certain restrictions college to home or office to home. Even in young age no outing by road. And boys are hitting the road every now and then. 

How a primary student will compete the graduate?

There is no reason to laugh at them. Be with them and help them to improve. Boys might not be good at chopping vegetables or cooking, but they take their stand as it's not boys job. But that is not the fact, it's just they are not trained to do that.

Running the campaigns of female empowerment will not help, real heroes will make the change, help the women to stand alone.

Don't follow me, I am not leading you

Don't lead me, I am not following you

Don't walk beside me, I am not the companion

Just walk with me.

Longest travel of million miles will start from the small step, don't expect to change the world, be the small change first.

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Living today is the peace..

Most people have one common idea, make lot of money and get retired before hair turned to gray and having nice farmhouse and watch sunrise peacefully. But they all excuse, just let me complete this thing only.... that never happen and at last 'Rest In Peace'. Basically everyone is hunting peace.

जितना भी ट्राई करो, जिंदगी में कुछ ना कुछ तो छूटेगा ही...

We eat some rotten food mistakenly, we immedidately spit it out. Here we all know what we are holding is stinking making us uncomfortable but we cannot drop it. That is all game of our fear, and fearful person cannot meet the god, cannot attain the peace, cannot love.

प्यार करेगी क्या डरने वाली

मेरी बनेगी कोई हिम्मत वाली

I am neither preaching nor insisting anyone to drop the job. But to drop the idea of living desired life tomorrow. Tomorrow never arrives, whenever it does - it is today. 

Use this simple formula, wake up with beautiful smile and tell yourself,  "it's last day. I will smile". Meet everyone with gratitude, let the tears roll down. Yes, when the heart is full of gratitude eyes will be rolling tears for sure. Thirst for the peace cannot be quenched by any means, rather just being peace.

Breathe & Smile

Dear friend,

Remember, peace here doesn't mean to sit like statue. The word peace is like cardboard, tasteless. 

Being peace is to live in this moment. No strings connected to past or future. Drop the past means, just don't get over burdened and remain stressed. Drop future doesn't mean we will not buy the ticket for tomorrow, but we should not board the train mentally today. 

Live in the moment is very simple but small practices.

Like when we take a bite of roti from dish, watch peacefully like slow motion. From dish to roti touch the lips. Then chew it with smile, enjoy the chewing and we can feel the juices in the mouth. 

Like when we shower, feel each drop of water dropping on body. Each body part should be touched and reamin full of gratitude. Even while cleaning the body, towel should be touched gentaly. Hang the towel with such gratitude, as that helped us. Put on the clothes mindfully and be thankful to them too. That should not become habit, but every moement should be mindful.

Like when we walk, walk peacefully. When bottom of the feet touch the ground feel it. While drinking water, feel every gulp going inside. While sitting be mindful that body is sitting and feel it. While talking be mindful, smile and speak to maintain the energy. 

That awareness should be every moment, but shouldn't drop the idea if missing that so frequently. Like we fall down in mud we get up and clean ourself and keep walking. Same way, every moment we will drop it, but whenever we realise just breathe and smile.

Defintely everyone think they breathe and smile. But that is robotic. Breathe in should be slow, long and deep. Even breathe out should be slow and mindful. 

There is much more to share but words will be same like cardboard, tasteless. For each word I have to write 'means' and those means having their own 'means'. Sitting like statue is hazardous, sit mindfully. For each word we need to explain, that is why all failed and misinterpreted. Though when someone explore the taste, try to narrate.....

I shared with someone, that person tried an hour and shared there is no peace. Miss the concept, mindfull breathing should be itself joyous, don't entagle mind in peace of FUTURE. Mindful breathing means show gratitude to the nature, to the cosmos that you are still alive.

Breathe and Smile

Life

A common man need constant change otherwise he will get bored of life.

Buddha or Krishna who found the oneness of everything, realise that everything is temporary and in constant change.

To make the environment happy around, Krishna has to play the role of Joker. 

That’s why Krishna was doing Leela.

Water is to drink

Food is to eat

Air is to breathe

&

Life is to live.

All philosophy we read or listen might help to ignite but life is beyond the books and thoughts. 

Simple way, when we search the destination path on google map, the first thing asked to enter “Your Location “.  There are thousands of way to reach at any location. But important is our current location.

Exactly that way, we have to accept where we are. Then the path will be helpful. We also have to understand that what we read is the finger pointing somewhere by Krishna. It is not the path itself.

Radhe Radhe