When we think now patience is over and react to the actions by others, we are overburdened by the past. The person living every moment, don't have memory of past, so will never loose patience.
If we are holding our anger just because of teachings about anger then it is very dangerous. Approaching in scientific way, if anger is bad and we are holding it inside then it is same like we feel vomiting but holding inside instead of spitting out. Constant efforts of holding agner can cause cancer.
When we vomit we try to avoid such food, which cause the vomiting. That will help us to avoid such incident. Same we have to find the cause of the anger, that will help us to be peace. In root cause of all anger there is something happened which we don't like. Now make the list of things which we don't like and we do it or we have to pass through it, we have no choice to alter such things.
Like, we are not the richest person on the planet, we would like to be but we cannot and live the whole life with consolation or compromise. Like we don't want to be sick, but we do. We would like to wake up early but we cannot. We would like to stand first in schools, colleges, everywhere, but we cannot.
We would like to sleep whole day but we cannot. We would like take a break and sit on mountains, on seashores for hours and hous but we cannot. We don't like to do mistakes, but we do over the life.
We never learn that things are not under our control, even for ourselves. Then how we can control others to do as we want.
Living every moment, accepting as what happened is the key to peace. Patience is just outcome of the whole process.
