Sunday, June 18, 2023

Meet the life

We generally visit the funeral. Most people take a leave or day off to pay respect and condolences. But what if someone living being call us and ask to meet, we are busy!

Why the flowers are for dead bodies? 

It's not about not to visit the funeral. But pay respect to the life. Visit to living being makes the life better. 


Look at the smiles when they get drive in the car. When you feel the car is old and time to change, please give ride to underprivileged. These are also lives, meet them, greet them, give them some privilege. 

Some time we rush behind helping underprivileged only, that is also not acceptable. People around us might seems wealthy and happy, but every life is seeking for warmth and love. No need to show mercy to anyone.

Mercy is something based on condition, we see poor and we become emotional and give them something. But I suggest be compassionate, it has nothing to do outside. That is person's being, always loving, sharing and caring to everyone and everything.

Life is free but very precious, live it before death.

Saturday, June 10, 2023

The Oneness

Five years back, I noticed the number was frequently coming to me, 11:11. Out of curiosity I googled it, it was saying some goodness coming. That time I don't understand what that would be.

But that took time to practically understand, right understanding developed gradually. How to see the world, other people, the universe.

The whole universe is like human body and the human body is like the universe. The planetary system is like orgnans in whole cosmic body, same like we have different organs in human body. Each body organ has specific function to do, but collectively it is one body. There is not any high priority organ, each cell in the body has equal value. Like smallest amount of gas in the body will disturb the whole body. Like smallest expansion of the heart will disturb the whole body. Any little change in the formation of the body will disturb the body. 

So, as we have different organs which collectively form one human body. We all human beings and everything on earth are different organs which collectively form one planetary body - the Earth in the universe. Furthermore, all planets are organs which collectively create the universe. 

If heart wants to grow, the whole body organs has to grow respectively with body, otherwise it would be malfunction. Only one organ can't keep growing. So, when only one person grow in the society that is the malfunction. That is the cancer, which creates more pain for everyone. 

Heart is just a lable, in real it is a functioning to pump the blood, which is made out of the same cells like other body parts. If we give priority or value only to heart, it is kind of corruption. That will damage the whole body.

Same way, we cannot value or prioritize one person just because looking good or wealthy or spiritual or anything. If we do, it will damage the society, the corruption will begin. When we see, someone is respected by wealth, other people will do anything to get wealthy and respected. When we connect with only good looking people, other people will do anything to look good only. Now think, if all body organs will try to become heart as a valuable part of the body, what will happen?

Develop right understanding, develop the vision to see everything as the One. We will definitely see the corruption around and under that we protect ourselves to do corruption.

But the nature has it's own law, that never distiguish between anything. 

"What Goes Around Is What Comes Around".

Nature has it's own rules, but there are no rules for "How to live the life?". Everyone could have their own. But remember, if you are suffering from anything or life is not happy then change the path. Don't follow others path to create more pain. Each organ in the body is created to do something special, but it is collectively connected to all.

Even without understanding the oneness, without being spiritual or without being religious if you are enjoying the life in total, please drop all these ideas. After understading the oneness you will find the beauty of life, you will realise no moment should be missed to live. The ultimate goal of the life is to live totally with rememberance that you are just the existance.

You are free to live your life in your way, but remember if you hate anything you will be hated. If you curse something you will be cursed. If you think to give pain to other you will be in pain. Nature has no mercy, it will just return you. There is always possiblity our action might be resulted into hurting someone. But not to worry about that, things are not under our control. That is nature's design, we are placed to do that task. Also remember, before doing the task if the intetion is to hurt someone then it is dangerous. There is also possibility, we see the suffering without doing anything this moment. But accept that as natural - our action might be done so long before which we don't remember, be happy with that without curse or complain. No pain is permanent.

By writing this I am just trying to frame the fragrance in a box, which is not possible. Like, if I fill the air from garden in the box and send it to you, you won't get the fragrance by opening the box at home. Though, I am trying to point the finger towards the garden, if you will walk there are chances you will get fragrance. Please don't stick to any of the words from above, words are like eating cardboard, no juices no nutritions. Read them as you are reading the milestotes, "Delhi - 100 km". Milestone is just giving the information, it's not the Delhi.

Thursday, May 18, 2023

Breathe.......

Whatsoever you are doing, keep your attention in the gap between the two breaths. But it must be practiced while in activity.

Do not practice it in isolation. This practice is to be done while you are doing something else. You are eating – go on eating and be attentive of the gap. You are walking – go on walking and be attentive of the gap.
You are going to sleep – lie down, let sleep come, but you go on being attentive of the gap. Why in activity?
Because activity distracts the mind, activity calls for your attention again and again. Do not be distracted, be fixed at the gap. And do not stop activity, let the activity continue.
What will happen? Your activity will become an acting, as if you are playing a part - as if in a drama. Your attention is centered in you; your activity continues on the circumference.
𝐈𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐝 𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐞𝐝, 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐰𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐚 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐝𝐫𝐚𝐦𝐚.
𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐛𝐞 𝐚𝐧 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐨𝐫 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐫𝐨𝐥𝐞𝐬, 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐜𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐠𝐚𝐩. 𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐠𝐚𝐩 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐫𝐨𝐥𝐞𝐬, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐨𝐥𝐞, 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐟𝐢𝐞𝐝 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐑𝐎𝐋𝐄.
𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐢𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚 𝐝𝐫𝐚𝐦𝐚; 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐧 𝐢𝐭 𝐚𝐬 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞. 𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐡𝐬 𝐚𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐡𝐬.
𝓨𝓸𝓾 𝓱𝓪𝓿𝓮 𝓫𝓮𝓮𝓷 𝓰𝓲𝓿𝓮𝓷 𝓪 𝓻𝓸𝓵𝓮 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓪𝓻𝓮 𝓹𝓵𝓪𝔂𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓲𝓽; 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓱𝓪𝓿𝓮 𝓫𝓮𝓬𝓸𝓶𝓮 𝓲𝓭𝓮𝓷𝓽𝓲𝓯𝓲𝓮𝓭 𝔀𝓲𝓽𝓱 𝓲𝓽. 𝓣𝓸 𝓫𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓴 𝓽𝓱𝓪𝓽 𝓲𝓭𝓮𝓷𝓽𝓲𝓯𝓲𝓬𝓪𝓽𝓲𝓸𝓷 𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓮 𝓲𝓼 𝓽𝓱𝓲𝓼 𝓽𝓮𝓬𝓱𝓷𝓲𝓺𝓾𝓮.
💓𝑶𝒔𝒉𝒐

Tuesday, April 11, 2023

The Love Story

Most people read this setence, "Don't judge a book from it's cover". And hardly one to follow. When we get attracted with look and cover without looking at inside, we mostly get trapped. And, finally that creates suffering.

We cannot do love, but being loving is the only key to share love. Till someone is having hate or dislike for anything or anyone, the flower doesn't blossom.

There was a teacher named Anjali in a primary school. She was a class 5 teacher, she had a habit that she always used to say "I love you all" as soon as she came to the class.

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But she knew she wasn't telling the truth.
She didn't love all the kids in the class the same.
There was a kid in class who didn't even like a torn eye. His name was Raju. Raju Mally comes to school in crushed situation. Her hair would have been damaged, shoes tied off, mail marks on shirt collar. Even during his studies, he had attention elsewhere.
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When Madam scolded, he would have looked at her shocked, but from her empty eyes he could have seen clearly. That Raju is mentally missing despite being physically present in class i.e. (present body offsetmide). Slowly slowly madam started hating Raju. As soon as he entered the class, Raju Madam started to be criticized. All evil examples are done in the name of Raju. The kids laughed at him. And madam would have satisfied by insulting her.
Raju never responded to anything though.
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Madam feels like a lifeless stone with no soul inside. In response to every scolding, satire and punishment he would just look at them with empty eyes with his emotions and bow his head. Madam had a serious hate for this now.
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The first semester ended and the stage of making the progress report came, so madam wrote all these bad things in Raju's progress report. Progress report used to go to the head master before showing to parents. She called madam when she saw Raju's progress report. "Madam Pragati Report should also write something about Raju's progress. Raju's father will be totally disappointed with what you have written. "Madam said ""I apologize, but Raju is a very rude and useless child."" I don't think I can write anything about her progress. "Madam spoke in a disgusting tone and got up from there, today the school is closed.
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The next day the head master made a thought and he put Raju's progress report on the Madam's desk in the hands of the peon. When madam entered the class the next day, the report was seen. When I looked back, I came to know that this is Raju's report. "Madam thought that Raju must have blossomed the same flower in the previous classes too. "They thought and opened the Class 3 report. Reading the comments in the report had no limit to his surprise when he noticed that the report was full of compliments. "I have never seen an intelligent child like Raju. """Very sensitive child and is very attached to his friends and teacher."" " " "
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This was written
Raju got first place in last semester also. "Madame opened the Class 4 report in uncertain situation. "Raju took tremendous impact of his mother's disease. . Losing her attention from studies. """Raju's mother suffers last stage cancer. . He has no other caretaker at home. What has a profound impact on his studies.
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It was written "
The lower head master wrote that Raju's mother has died and with that the brightness and brightness of Raju's life. . He has to be saved... Before it's too late. "Reading this, a terrible burden overcame the madam's mind. With trembling hands they stopped the progress report. Tears started falling from Madam's eyes one after another. Madam wiped her tears with Sari
The next day when madam entered the class she repeated her traditional phrase "I love you all" according to her habit.
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But she knew she was still lying today. Because the love she felt in her heart today for a tangled haired kid Raju sitting in this class.. He sat in the classroom and was more than any child.
During studies, he asked a question on Raju as a daily routine and as usual, Raju bowed his head. For some time, when no scolding from the madam and laughter from her classmates did not hear her ears, she raised her head and looked at the madam in surprise. Unexpected there was no force on her forehead today, she was smiling. He called Raju to him and asked him to repeat the answer to the question. Raju finally spoke after three four times request. As soon as she answered this, Madam not only applauded herself but also made all the children clapped..
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Then it became a routine. Madam would tell the answer of every question herself and then would have appreciated it a lot. Each good example was given because of Raju. Gradually old Raju came out after tearing the grave of silence. Now madam does not need to answer with question. He impresses everyone by giving error answers daily and surprises everyone by asking new questions.
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His hair would have improved somewhat now, clothes would have been cleaner that he probably started washing himself. The year ended in a glimpse and Raju got second place and passed 5th class means he was ready for admission in second place in school.
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All the children at the farewell ceremony of class 5 brought beautiful gifts for madam and stacked on madam's table. These beautifully packaged gifts also included a badly packaged gift in an old newspaper. The kids were laughing at him. It didn't take long to know that Raju had brought this gift. Madam took out Raju's gift by hiding from this small mountain of gift. Opened it inside was a half used glass of a women's perfume and a large hard bracelet with most of the pearls shed. Miss quietly sprinkled this perfume on herself and wore a bracelet in her hand. Children were all surprised to see this scene. Raju himself too. Finally Raju could not stay away and came to Miss and stood up. .
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After some time she stuck and said to madam "Today you smell like my mother. "Madam's eyes were filled with tears after hearing this and Madam hugged Raju by her neck
Raju was going to go to another school now
Raju had taken admission in school in second place
Time is starting to pass.
Day week,
Where does it take time to change week month and month to year?
But at the end of every year, Madam would have received a letter regularly from Raju which would have written that "this year met many new teachers." But there was no madam like you. "
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Again Raju's studies ended and the series of letters ended. Many years ahead and madam retired.
One day I found Raju's letter in my mail at Madam's house which said:
“I have my wedding at the end of this month and I can’t imagine marriage without you. One more thing .. I have met a lot of people in my life.. There is no one like you......... Your doctor Raju
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Along with the letter, the ticket of the plane was also present in the envelope.
Madam could never stop herself. She took permission from her husband and left for Raju's city. It was a bit late when she reached the wedding place on the wedding day.
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They thought the ceremony was over.. But there was no limit to their surprise seeing that the city's big doctors, businessmen and even the Panditji who got married there were tired. Who is yet to come... But Raju stumbled towards the gate instead of the wedding pavilion in the function was waiting for him to arrive. Then everyone noticed that as soon as an old woman entered the gate, Raju turned towards her and grabbed the hand in which she was wearing a bracelet and took her straight to the stage.
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Raju held the mic in his hand and said something like this "Friends, you all used to ask me about my mother and I promised you that I will meet you all soon ........
Look closely this is my lovely mother the best in the world this is my mother -
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!! Dear friends.... Don't think of this beautiful story just because of teacher and student relationship. Look around you, many flowers like Raju are withering to whom your little attention, love and affection can give new life;!!!!