Be a part.....

I and you can become we, but once that become we it will be we only. For we both I should be desolved otherwise we is no more.

I will be happy to help at home and not expecting reward for the same. I won't help just because she needs my help but my 'I' is no more with her. I would love to clean house because me to live there.  I would love to cook not to help but that is my meal too. I would love to wash dishes not to help her but I used them too. Kids don't belong to her only, so I would love to give her a hand to hold the baby. Yes, in all means I would to be the part. Because it is a home, not a hotel.

I would love to be slave until she won't try to be my master.

I would be happy to take her out, but I should not  be taken as a tour sponsoror. I would be happy to walk with her to explore the world, but should not be taken as a guide. I am ready to take care of her but should be taken as a care taker. I don't need to prove to be a macho man, but should not be considered a non-human being.

In a relationship no one is helping each other, but both are the part of each other. Just be one, like water, no shape, no colour, not taste but essential for life.

Being Buddha... Being Mahavir...

Following the path initiated by Buddha or Mahavir, no one would be able to be the Buddha or the Mahavir.

Because they followed their heart, not the paths created or suggested by others or ancestors.

We are already created, we never need to try to be something.... we are already created. So trying to be something is wrong way. Chanting Buddha, can't help one to be Buddha. Just let it what it is, it's already created by almighty. Once we stop the processing of being, our inner will start blossoming, we are obstructing our own being to come out.

The whole life becoming waste to become Budhha, Mahavir...... let your Buddha to come  out.

look ni bhookh

I might be wrong, that is just what I found or I feel.

It was common to find a white girl with black boy or black girl with white boy. I am not a racist but that is how we are socially nurtured.

That would be our lame excuse that we Indians, are not racist. But it is difficult to find fair girl with unfair boy or vice versa. Though everyone found in true love.

Why your true love found only a cute girl or smart guy? We all are running behind good look, good look and good look.

We are judgemental, looking at the book cover we start presuming the quality of content. In real we are lame.

Availability....!

Availability is the key of value in market as well as in relationship.

The thing which has more availability has the lesser value,

Air
Soil
Water
Food
Silver
Gold

Gold has no priority of human's survival but it has the highest value while Air is on top for human's survival but it has no value.

If one wants to be special for someone then become gold, not available one. Then you would get the value. That doesn't matter how good you are or how useful you are, important is how much you can drag behind you.

Being Gold,  you can be loved by one but being Air you could beloved of all. That depends on person's choice.