Monday, May 15, 2017

What is Love?

To define something, the things should have boundry. Science can create definitions only the things with boundries, limits or shapes. The things without shape or limits is called infinite, cannot define.

It is the essence, not the quality which can be defined. Once we say I love this, I love that...... it is limited, that becomes bounded. The whole phenomena of love is assassinated when we define.    

Friday, May 5, 2017

Feminine Mystery

Ancient people don't believe in male god, godesses are ancient than ancient. Male internal ego create God the father, but God the mother exists from the beginning. Even uncle's existence is older than father. An injection can replace a father but not mother, father is always replaceable.

In nature mother is important, not father. That's why a woman is creative, but most artists found are male. Male needs to prove that he can... he can produce, he can create. A woman artists can't make a great art piece than her child.

Male is dominant as he is not complete. Even in love male is aggressive. Without any action female can attract male, just an existence of female is itself attractive. They never take an initiative, always male has to take an initiative, this is called action of inaction. Initiative is to step up, it is aggressive. Male is trying to enter in someone's personal space, it is an attack. Female never enters in someone's personal space. Though she is alluring. She is inactive in active, she is inviting but there is no plan for it. All things have to be done my male, though she is refusing. That's why when female says no, it's yes. If she wants to say no, she won't say anything, it's waste of time for her to say no. She will never make a commitment, all commitment will be done by male.

That doesn't mean female doesn't do anything. But that is all feminine mystery.

Even in physical relationship females are passive, they can't execute forceful relationship, they can't rape. Even in marriages, in most cases male perform rapes. Females inaction is considered as approval. It is considered as duty of wife. Male can do that as the whole existence of male is dominant, female is receptive. But she is creative, only female can be creator.

Only female can be the prostitute, male can't be. Male will get exhausted sooner. Male can be rapist, female can't. As males are attacker, attacker can't survive long. Females are dominated all over the world not because they are delicate, but there was threat for men. If they were not dominated then they must dominate men, as they are more powerful. The best example was set in China, girls were used to put on steel shoe, so they can't grow properly. They always need a support, they always need help to walk. The nature has given the power of creation to females, creation power could belongs to the powerful only. That create inferiority complex in males, that creates insecurity for them.

But now a days female found in the world is pseudo, that is fabricated by male in long tenure. That is the bitter truth, females don't need to prove that they are better than males. But all of them trying to prove, which is completely false.

Female can wait for whole life for the one whom she loves, but male can't do that, male can't wait, they need the things instantly either coffee or sex. The whole marriage system is the invention of male and male dominated society. The Hinduism has set the rule that male can do remarriage after his wife passed away but females are forced not to marry if her husband passed away. But male couldn't understand that is the insult of male. This fact proves that female can be trusted but male can't be so they should marry again. Males are hunting for unmarried girls, as they are attractive. Other way widows become more attractive as they become more deep inside, they are more peaceful. Pregnant females are more attractive, which beauty is far away than any other beauty in the world. Female has different stages of beauty, which male can't have.

Mother is more respected than wife, Because mother born with her child. Only female could have patience of 9 month with dignity, which male can't have. The peak experience of a woman is to become a mother, neither a wife nor a lover.  Women are born with a finite number of eggs, but men start producing his sperms after age of 14. Thus when man born he is not complete, but a girl is complete from birth. That is the reason incomplete boys are always frustrated, and girls are so deep and peaceful. Girls are complete because of XX chromosome, in general all of us having 46 chromosomes, which states balanced atoms. She has complete pair of atoms. Whilst male is not complete because of XY, which tends him to run whole life to be complete. Women are complete so they are satisfied, that is the reason they can be dominated.

Buddha is womanist, because a male who is completely peaceful he develops the feminine qualities. That might be the reason, symbolic presence of Krishna or Buddha doesn't have moustaches. They were more feminine.

The true lover is not that who is trying to prove the presence. One do not need to prove the presence. Vachaspati Mishra was married to a girl when parents asked to do so. After marriage for 12 years he was writing the Upanishada. Till that everyday the girl, his wife was serving him food and lit a candle every night, but never utter a single word. She never disturbed him in his work. After 12 years when Vachaspati finished his writing, he look at the girl and ask who are you? In reply he found that she is his wife, he found that he was obliged and say sorry with tears in his eyes. She should have ask him before about. He was destined to leave home once finish the writing. That Upanishada was named on that girl 'Bhamati'. But she was happy to get that, was enough. All of us forget the name Vachaspati but 'Bhamati' is still in mind. Both of them didn't touch but the way their soul touch would never happen.      

If god exists, then must be feminine. Male can't be, male can't create. Only female has the womb, she can be only creator.

Tuesday, April 25, 2017

Don't sell yourself , respect yourself.

A little boy went to his old grandpa and asked, "What's the value of life?"

The grandpa gave him one stone and said, "Find out the value of this stone, but don't sell it."

The boy took the stone to an Orange Seller and asked him what its cost would be.

The Orange Seller saw the shiny stone and said, "You can take 12 oranges and give me the stone."

The boy apologized and said that the grandpa has asked him not to sell it.

He went ahead and found a vegetable seller.

"What could be the value of this stone?" he asked the vegetable seller.

The seller saw the shiny stone and said, "Take one sack of potatoes and give me the stone."

The boy again apologized and said he can't sell it.

Further ahead, he went into a jewellery shop and asked the value of the stone.

The jeweler saw the stone under a lens and said, "I'll give you 1 million for this stone."

When the boy shook his head, the jeweler said, "Alright, alright, take 2 24karat gold necklaces, but give me the stone."

The boy explained that he can't sell the stone.

Further ahead, the boy saw a precious stone's shop and asked the seller the value of this stone.

When the precious stone's seller saw the big ruby, he lay down a red cloth and put the ruby on it.

Then he walked in circles around the ruby and bent down and touched his head in front of the ruby. "From where did you bring this priceless ruby from?" he asked.

"Even if I sell the whole world, and my life, I won't
be able to purchase this priceless stone."

Stunned and confused, the boy returned to the grandpa and told him what had happened.

"Now tell me what is the value of life, grandpa?"

Grandpa said,

"The answers you got from the Orange Seller, the Vegetable Seller, the Jeweler & the Precious Stone's Seller explain the value of our life...

You may be a precious stone, even priceless, but, people will value you based on their intellectual status, their level of information, their belief in you, their motive behind entertaining you, their ambition, their risk taking ability & ultimately their calibre.

So don't fear, you will surely find someone who will discern your true value."

Respect yourself.

Don't sell yourself cheap.

You are rare, Unique, Original and the only one of ur kind.

Your are a masterpiece because u r MASTER'S PIECE.

No one can Replace you.

Thursday, March 9, 2017

I learned more...

I learned...

I learned to loose

I lost my ego
I lost my grievances
I lost my anger
I lost my danger

I lost my religion
I lost my thoughts
I lost my home
I lost my name

Yes, I loose a lot
and still seeking more loss.
Emptiness is needed,
to pour more.